You're not alone

Choose whatever helps right now.

If a life is in danger

Call the local emergency number, or ask someone nearby to call. If you have already hurt yourself or taken something dangerous, call now, even if you feel all right.

Where are you right now?

Help numbers depend on the country you're in, not on the site's language. We never ask for access to your location.

What you can do right now

  • If anything nearby could be used to hurt yourself, put it out of reach or ask someone to stay with you.
  • Message someone you trust: “I’m having a hard time. Can you be with me?”
  • You don't have to solve everything now. Getting through the next few minutes is enough.

Talk to a person

If you're having thoughts of hurting yourself or of not wanting to live, call a support line. They will listen without judgment. You can also call when things simply feel too heavy.

Choose your country above to see its support lines. Lines in many countries are also listed in the Find A Helpline directory.

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Calm your body

Write to Svetlana

Svetlana usually replies within two working days. This is not an emergency service: if things are hard right now, please call one of the numbers above.

Email help@sv.life
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Free practice · CBT

Thinking traps

10 cognitive distortions from David Burns. Learn to name them — and they lose their grip on you.

Things are all good or all bad, no middle.

One event becomes a never-ending pattern.

Focusing only on the negatives.

Good things 'don't count'.

Mind-reading and fortune-telling without evidence.

Blowing things out of proportion.

'I feel it, so it must be true.'

Rigid 'shoulds' and 'musts'.

One act defines the whole person.

Taking blame for things outside your control.

This is an educational practice and does not replace therapy or emergency care.

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