You're not alone

Choose whatever helps right now.

If a life is in danger

Call the local emergency number, or ask someone nearby to call. If you have already hurt yourself or taken something dangerous, call now, even if you feel all right.

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Where are you right now?

Help numbers depend on the country you're in, not on the site's language. We never ask for access to your location.

What you can do right now

  • If anything nearby could be used to hurt yourself, put it out of reach or ask someone to stay with you.
  • Message someone you trust: “I’m having a hard time. Can you be with me?”
  • You don't have to solve everything now. Getting through the next few minutes is enough.

Talk to a person

If you're having thoughts of hurting yourself or of not wanting to live, call a support line. They will listen without judgment. You can also call when things simply feel too heavy.

Choose your country above to see its support lines. Lines in many countries are also listed in the Find A Helpline directory.

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Calm your body

Breathe togetherGrounding 5-4-3-2-1

Write to Svetlana

Svetlana usually replies within two working days. This is not an emergency service: if things are hard right now, please call one of the numbers above.

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Free practice · Emotions

Self-compassion break

Three steps from Kristin Neff: acknowledge the pain, remember you're not alone, and turn toward yourself with kindness.

Step 1 · Mindfulness

«This is a hard moment.»

Simply acknowledge it, without fighting or judging. The pain is real, and it can be gently noticed.

If it feels okay, you can rest a hand on your chest or belly, or simply feel your feet on the floor. If it doesn't, skip it.

If these words make things heavier, you can stop: that is self-care too. Grounding 5-4-3-2-1 →

This is a self-reflection exercise and does not replace therapy or emergency care.

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